Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has spoken candidly about how he copes with life’s pressures, revealing that his wife remains the person he turns to whenever emotional challenges become overwhelming.
Speaking during an interview with Dear Ife, the actor explained that although he is mindful not to burden his wife because of her own responsibilities, she becomes his source of comfort whenever he reaches his breaking point.
According to Okanlawon, his wife is occupied with managing her own career while also caring for their home and family. As a result, he tries to shield her from his personal struggles as much as possible. However, in moments when the weight of life’s challenges becomes unbearable, he does not hesitate to lean on her for emotional support, even if it means waking her up in the middle of the night.
Beyond relying on his wife, the actor disclosed that he has intentionally built a strong support network comprising a therapist, mentors and trusted friends who provide guidance, encouragement and emotional relief whenever needed.
He stressed that men should not feel compelled to shoulder every burden alone, noting that seeking help is a sign of emotional awareness rather than weakness. According to him, healing begins when people recognise the need for support instead of suppressing their emotions.
Reflecting on his role as a husband and protector, Okanlawon said he naturally feels responsible for shielding those around him from danger whenever difficult situations arise. Nevertheless, he maintained that carrying such responsibilities does not eliminate the need to seek emotional healing and support.
He said, “When the thing is just too hard, there’s my wife. She’s not the first because she’s dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me.”
He added, “My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen. There’s no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing.”
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